I had no news for a while, and I thought he had understood, but this night I received a text, at around 3am "Ciao, I'm coming to Basel, when can we meet? I have to see you, kisses" I didn't write back because I wanted to sleep, and then he tried to call me 3 times during the night, I switched off the phone. This morning I answered that I had no time, and asked why he wanted to come. He answered "I just want to see you. We will have a swim, take a shower, eat together and I will go". So he wants to come all the way from Milano just for that, even though I told him I was not interested... He really doesn't want to understand. I hope he won't come, for it would really be sad for him to have done all that for nothing.
Erik is maybe coming at my place this weekend, I hope he will. He said he has a lot to do in Zürich, but he need to relax a bit, he seems really stressed, and I know how to make him feel better :P
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Erik...so sexy with a "-k." ;)
Poor swimmer guy; you stole his heart. Maybe he wants to come all the way to see you to retrieve it. It's hard to say, but probably seeing him again wouldn't be the best thing. He's likely to just get more upset if you do meet up again.
I don't see it as "Poor swimmer guy." He is harassing you. I had a bad vibe about this from the beginning. This is not the normal behavior of a mentally balanced person. It has been creepy from the outset. He is obviously obsessed with you; and I think he may even be dangerous. I think you should avoid him at all costs. Any contact you give only invites him to try for more. So if you haven't already told him that you absolutely refuse to see him if he comes from Milan or anywhere else, I advise you to do so, and then tell him never to try to contact you again. If he knows where you live and shows up at your apartment, don't let him in. If he won't go away, call the police.
Maybe I have an overactive imagination, but I'm really worried for you.
Hey... you scared me! Don't worry, I don't think he's dangerous, he well might be a bit "unbalanced" as you pointed out. I'm not going to see him again, that's sure. I'm careful when I meet new people (as my mother told me, always listen to your mother!) so he just have my number, and can't even trace my adress cause I'm not in the phone book :) The only place were he can meet me is the swimming pool, and I hope that he won't wait there until I come.
Anyway, I was at the army, and I know how to defend myself. Thanks for caring :)
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