Sunday, 6 December 2009

Guillermo

Mmm... I'm just back from the restaurant. Guillermo couldn't come yesterday because his competition ended late in the evening and it was in another city. We met today, and went to eat in one of my favourite restaurants. We had a nice meal, and it was a very enjoyable night, we talked without stopping during more than three hours, with a lot of funny moments. This is quite good. The part that I don't like is that I got really confused... He was dressed very well, like for a date, he smiled at me looking me in the eyes for the whole evening, and asked three times by different ways if I was a bachelor, and that made me think that he was interested, but on the same time, he told me about his ex girlfriend... it was quite confusing.

We asked for the bill, and he brought me back home by car, and he asked me another time "so, amongst all the nice ladies there is in your faculty, you never found the right one?" and I was like "mmm... no, I don't think there is a right lady for me..." expecting him to ask for more, but he stopped there. Just before going down from the car, he said "well, Charlie, I had a very good evening, I hope that we'll have meet very soon" and I said I had a very nice time too, and we looked each other for a moment, I didn't know what to do, I mean if he's not gay, I don't want to come a cropper... I just shook his hand and went out.

I wrote a text a few minutes ago, saying "Hi, I had a very nice time tonight. As you aked a few times already, I will tell you something. I'm not really into girls... I don't tell everyone, but I have the feeling that it won't bother you. Just so you know why I don't talk that much about my love life. Anyways, I'm not any worse at giving advices for the studies for this reason, it doesn't change anything :) I hope that it's not a problem for you. See you on tuesday, and have a good night." and I got the answer "It doesn't bother me at all. I had some doubts about it. I'm touched that you told me. I had a REALLY nice evening, and you are someone REALLY nice. Have a good night and see you on tuesday ^=^" hum... it doesn't really bring something new...

2 comments:

naturgesetz said...

Well, he's comfortable with you being gay. In fact, it sounds as if he was trying to figure it out or get you to tell him. So it seems he wanted to know. But why?

I don't think you should pry, the way he did with you. I think you can pretty safely assume that if he's interested in you he'll follow up before long. Meanwhile, just enjoy his company.

It's possible that he's gay but doesn't know it yet. If so, he probably needs time to realize it for himself.

Aek said...

Awww, he's being evasive. Play it cool! Take things as they come and see what you can pry out of him (subtly, of course). Anyway, it's great that he seems like such a good friend and that you can be open with him. ^_^